To have a “safe affair”, I had a “vasectomy”, but my wife was pregnant…
That is the real story of my friend.
I am 42 years old. I have been married to my wife for 10 years and have a son. The son is 7 years old and has just entered the first grade of elementary school. When my son was 3 years old, on a business trip, I had an inexplicable sexual relationship with a female colleague from another department of our group. It’s inexplicable because she and I were not familiar with each other before. We didn’t even know her name. We just looked familiar and had met her a few times in meetings.
That day, we worked overtime in the same room until very late because we had to revise a ppt together. It happened to be summer, she was wearing thin clothes, her arms were as white as snow, and the perfume was very irritating to my nose. I felt that I couldn’t bear it at the time, but I still endured it. However, later I saw her eyes, which seemed to be seducing me. I got excited and hugged her. She didn’t resist at all…I didn’t expect that she would cheat on her. The stimulation of sex outside marriage is indeed much stronger than that within marriage. I like being with her and the feeling of being strong as if my life has been activated again.
She is also very nice, has no requirements for me, and likes me very much. We are not so much extramarital lovers as best friends.
We were married for seven years. We chatted almost every day except on weekends. We talked about work, life, and the books and movies we read. And she was also very smart. She never thought about getting divorced, and she never asked me for any money, so our relationship has always been very good. Later, she got pregnant unexpectedly, and the child must be mine. At that time, she and her husband had been in a sexless marriage for many years, so it was very troublesome. To have an abortion, she took the opportunity of a business trip to go out of town for 10 days. Later, at her suggestion, I had a ligation operation. The operation was very simple and cost only more than 3,000 yuan to solve the problem. In this way, she will not get pregnant unexpectedly, and I have already given birth to a son and have no desire to have children. This has been going well for four or five years. There have been no accidents and our relationship has remained stable. Moreover, my wife has never checked on me and has always been very trustworthy about me. She also does not look at my mobile phone or any social software.
For this, I am grateful.
But what I didn’t expect was that my wife got pregnant unexpectedly this month. My wife and I do maintain the frequency of [sex☆☆life] two or three times a month because I am worried that she will be suspicious, so I have been working hard to pay for it. When my wife took out the test strip with two bars, I was heartbroken.
When I had the sterilization, I didn’t tell my wife, otherwise she would have suspected that I was having an affair. So for all these years, my wife didn’t know that I had lost my ability to have children. Now, seeing the fact that she is pregnant, I cannot be happy. How could she be pregnant? That is, she was messing around with a man outside, got pregnant, and expected me to take the blame and take her to the hospital for an abortion. In the past few days, my wife keeps getting angry when I see that I am unhappy, saying that I have no love for her.
Am I happy? I wanted to tell her, I had a sterilization operation five years ago, how could you possibly be pregnant? But when I said this, I betrayed myself and proved that I had already cheated. So, I can’t say. But, if you don’t say anything, will you just top the cylinder like this?
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