2bebetter
4 min readDec 12, 2020

Walk through the valley of life, after the road, is up
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Some time ago, it was the darkest time of my life. After the birth of my baby, I got very sick. The physical pain, less than four hours of sleep a day, and the baby’s endless crying broke my spirit for a while.

Fortunately, my family noticed my abnormality in time and helped me share the burden of bringing up the baby. With their help, I took time to exercise and catch up on sleep, while recording my journey in writing to give an outlet to my bad feelings.

I worked hard to adjust my state, my body gradually recovered, and everything was moving in a better direction. Before I knew it, the miserable days came to an end. A courageous face is really a cure for everything.

I think of an incident that my mother happened to mention to me a few years ago. When I was four years old, my father was diagnosed with cancer and the doctor said he would not live more than ten years. At that time, my mother was pregnant with my younger brother, and the family was so poor that they could not afford to treat the disease, so they had to borrow money from everywhere.

After the treatment, my father was busy making money to support the family, working early and late every day. My mother would also work at home to do some needlework to subsidize the family. In this way, the debt was gradually paid off, and my father’s handicraft work became more and more exquisite, and more and more people sought his work. To this day, he is still strong and healthy, relying on his own hands to send my brother and me to college.

If my mother hadn’t mentioned it, I wouldn’t have known that they had such a difficult time. In such a difficult situation, my father did not give up on himself, and my mother also faced life positively together, and they finally came out of their suffering.

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I have a friend who was laid off by his company in March this year. It was during the epidemic, and he had been looking for a job for more than two months but had not found a suitable job.

The days without a source of income were very torturous, and he was so stressed that he often couldn’t sleep at night. Later, he felt that waiting like this was not the way to go, and began to take the initiative to find other opportunities. He found a friend is doing live sales, so he asked his friend how to do life, it just so happens that the family has local specialties can be sold in this way.

He bought the tools needed for live streaming, practice how to face the camera, and talk eloquently, learn the skills of live sales. At first only acquaintances to buy, due to good word of mouth, word of mouth, watching him live more and more people, the list is gradually more and more up. Although the money earned is less than the original salary, but at least to maintain basic living expenses, so he survived that period of strapped for cash.

Today, he has re-found a satisfactory job, and in his spare time will also sell goods live, is also considered to have opened up a side business.

Probably, everyone's life will experience a low point. The difference is that some people will just sit and wait for a turnaround, some people will rely on their own strength to take the initiative to go out. The more you are at the bottom, the more you have to rise up. Only when you hit the bottom can you see hope.

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There is a saying: there is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome.

Perhaps now you, quit home for a long time, do not know where the next job; perhaps you are a new baby mother, day and night with the baby, time and energy are almost drained; perhaps your immediate school and work are not too smooth, life has suffered one blow after another ……

No matter how hard you feel right now, it is actually temporary. As long as you are brave enough to move forward, you will definitely see a turnaround at some point in the future.

Fate is fair, and everyone has their own life problems to solve. There is always a difficult time that you need to go through on your own. But please believe that even the hardest road will come to an end.

In life, no one will always have smooth sailing. Those who hold flowers in their hands are stepping on thorns all the way through. Out of the valley of life, after the road is up.

Life is long, do not panic, walk through the darkness, you will meet the light.

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