What Does Dating App Taught Me About Relationships?

4 min readAug 5, 2024

I suddenly got a hang of relationships, and it started when I started raising fish on social software.

During that time, I had just broken up and was eager to get out of my last relationship, so I started playing social software, chatting with 10 boys at a time, chatting with them ambiguously, and choosing a few to meet in person according to my mood. As I played, I suddenly got a hang of relationships.

So, I suggest girls be more ambiguous with men, just play with them, and you will learn it by yourself. You can tell what kind of bad water is coming out of his belly by just taking a look at this man, and no one dares to bully you. At that time, I randomly selected a few

boys whose avatars and photos looked of good quality every day, and took the initiative to send them messages, introduce myself, and say that I was a little bored, and asked if we could chat.
Most of the time, there was no topic to talk about, so I would select someone who responded to me enthusiastically or of good quality, and send messages to them again every two days. Those who responded enthusiastically would be included in the fish pond. For those who were cold to me, I would include them as friends who liked my posts, and like and comment on them once every two weeks. If he took the initiative to contact me, I would continue to include him in the fish pond.

Then I will select a few people with the best quality and the most enthusiastic responses, and carefully look through their friend circles. Through chatting, I will ask them questions about the types they like, try different topics, and see what topics they are interested in. Later, I will gradually deepen the chat. Then I will send them ambiguous and flirtatious words at the same time. If someone responds to me immediately, I will think that he is easy to control and his level is not high, so I will put him in the spare tire.

If someone does not respond to my question, I will think that he must have no shortage of women in real life, so he will be the key target of the strategy. In the future, continue to chat as friends, provide emotional value, cater to his preferences, and make an appointment. If

you can’t make an appointment, list it as a friend who likes it, and keep a wave of activities every ten days or half a month until he takes the initiative to find me and continue the previous operation.
If you can make an appointment, it is a two-way choice process. If I don’t like it, I will just ignore it. If it’s a pity to eat it and throw it away, put it in the spare tire. He finds me and replies occasionally. Never pay emotional value. Those
I like are listed as key targets for strategy.
Don’t be impatient at this time, and keep a steady mind. How to keep a steady mind is that you can’t have only one key target for strategy. You have several, but you can’t get them all together. How can you be unstable?
Of course, I’m not a scumbag. I like all of them because they don’t make me feel safe.

So I will chat with them ambiguously, and I will also take the initiative to make an appointment. I may also suddenly ignore him and reject his invitation to a date.
He will think I’m weird, but it doesn’t matter, because it will only make them more excited.
Of course, I didn’t do it on purpose,
because I’m too busy. Who can stay in the end depends entirely on fate and who doesn’t mind my hot and cold behavior?
I tell you, the person who stays will be very easy to control in the future.

After this wave of games, I have seen through all the emotional problems of girls.
Like, why do boys like my Moments but don’t take the initiative to chat with me?
Why do boys chat with me but don’t ask me out?
Why does he seem to like me when he meets me, but doesn’t take the initiative?
Why is he always hot and cold?
I think you already know the answer.