What should I do if my ex cruelly breaks up with me and doesn’t want to contact me anymore?

2bebetter
5 min readMay 24, 2024

Almost everyone who has tried to get back together with their ex has been rejected, and some have even been rejected more cruelly by the other party.

You can’t understand. You just want to see him once, give him a gift to express your friendship, or expect to have a serious talk with him, but no matter whether you wait until late at night or shed tears, his heart is like a cold stone. No matter what you do, you can’t warm it up and will only reject you coldly.

I have a deep understanding of this feeling. After a breakup, no matter how you explain, apologize, beg, or pester the other person, or give them gifts, these actions always seem to be wrong and are all useless. The other person just remains unmoved.

In fact, through my years of experience, I have found that these situations do not depend on whether the other party is hard-hearted. It is just because you lack planning in your recovery and choose the wrong time, which triggers the other party’s rejection psychology.

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01. The primary problem: The other party has a problem of rejection.

Everyone likes to find excuses to cover up their behavior to appease their inner feelings.

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