Whether a couple or a lover, the only sign that a man is deeply in love with a woman: a love interest

2bebetter
6 min readFeb 18, 2024

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Man is a boat that keeps drifting on the sea.

Home is the harbor where everyone can stay at any time.

Rousseau once said: that men love women, not like women’s sex, but like to live in her side of a “fun”.

Love, whether it is passionate, or romantic; love, whether it is plain, or soul intertwined, to put it bluntly, love, is two people together to create spiritual “interest”.

Without the interest, there is no love surrounded by the beautiful taste;

Without interest, there can not be the fun of the living;

Without a love interest, it is difficult to provoke each other to look at each other when the sparks are flying;

Without the love interest, it will make the day, even if there are more beautiful scenery and good times, but no good mood, to appreciate, to feel ……

Therefore, whether husband and wife or lover, men deeply love the woman’s only performance, that is: have interest.

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Together we will make our home a “fun” place to be

I watched a play.

The heroine in the pre-marriage, whenever the mood is bad, will do hands of the home to do cleaning, especially every nook, and cranny, with a little bit of rag to wipe clean, but also some of the furniture rearranged, as if a change of location, a change of mood.

Later, she got married.

The house was bigger, the furniture was more, and there was more of a figure by her side.

There is one particularly interesting detail.

She and her husband were arguing, and just as she was silently picking up a rag, her husband quickly rubbed up against her, grabbed her rag, and coaxed her, saying, Today I’ll be your little soldier, wherever you point, I’ll hit, as long as you don’t get mad.

She snorted with laughter at that.

Then, the two together, take down all the lampshades in the house, together to clean.

San Mao once said a sentence: I like to live out the flavor of life to, I have seen a lot of luxury home furnishings, some eerie flavor, there is a lot of unhappiness …… I think the thing to do is to make sure to make yourself happy.

Visible, “home”, for many women, is her life.

Just like life, is a clear spring, that needs to be injected at any time to live.

A cozy home, is a happy place, not only is the energy and financial input, but also the release of aesthetics and creativity, more, two people to run their hearts to the cradle of the feelings between each other.

Home clean is the two people in the heart to keep; home comfortable, is the two people in the atmosphere; home warm, is the proof that two people love each other.

Men love women, is with her, the home into a place full of interest.

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It’s always “fun” to be with each other.

I saw a movie.

A couple.

The woman was having problems at work and the man took a special leave of absence to travel with her for a break.

The two walk together through the streets of an ancient city.

They came up with the idea of playing a game: spend an hour apart and buy each other a gift as a surprise.

An hour later, when both men took out their gifts, they both laughed.

Simply because they bought the same thing: a wind chime.

It wasn’t the same brand or the same shape, but it was the same wind chime that hung on the wall.

Because, the woman had said to the man: on the balcony, if you can hang a string of wind chimes when you meet the wind, there are some crisp sounds, it must be very romantic.

The man remembered the words.

Visible, is said, everyone, is a natural artist, just depends on whether you have unearthed.

People, if there is no interest, most likely, will live in stagnant water.

Those who know how to live life, and create interest in the men and women, will always be happy and free days.

Whether rich or poor, they can create a fire smell in the kitchen, and every day there is the aroma of food wafting out;

No matter how busy, they can find time for two people to go to the countryside together, enjoy the moon and flowers, listen to songs, and watch the sea so that the days have some enjoyment;

No matter how trivial life is, they will use elegant interest, cultivate a healthy lifestyle, watch a movie together, together after the child goes to sleep, enjoy the next two people’s time for two people, go together to sort out the clothes, do housework, together when they go out, pulling the little hand, conveying love ……

Every simple day is a true reflection of love;

The smile on your face every day is the most grateful confession to your partner.

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He often says, “Have fun” to women.

Life is numb.

There are always some couples, together for many years, and the words between each other, have become a simple repetition: what to eat? What to buy? You go to pick up the child, in the evening do not go home for dinner …… and so on.

Dry, almost no emotional color.

And love needs to be nourished.

The words of two people, if they have been lacking in sentimentality, love, too, fade away.

Invented, is to allow lovers, can be in love, flirting with each other, each other ambiguous, mutual attachment.

Woman’s words, if the husband is often complimented, most likely, she is the man’s gas station;

Man’s words, often to women honey-sweet words, most likely, he is the woman’s ageless medicine.

Life, not only bread, more to come to a cup of coffee at any time, let the love, and then help you put some sugar.

Two people together, the more you can say some interesting words, the more you can let the home have a warm atmosphere; the more you can comfort each other, and mutual consideration, the more you can get along with the peace of mind, love is entangled.

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Every person who is in love and is radiant is bound to have an amorous partner by his side;

For every person who finds joy in life, his home must always be filled with laughter.

Love is like that.

Whether you are a couple, or a lover, when a man shows this to a woman:

Being able to turn his home, into a place of affection, is a sign of attachment to her;

To be able to make life, become full of interest, is the affirmation of her;

To be able to say words with interesting flavors is to love her deeply.

Love is lingering, is alive constantly, more than fun.

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