Whether a person is kind can be seen from the way he eats, which is very accurate
Knowing people at a dinner party: Seeing people’s hearts on the table
There is a popular saying on the Internet: “Life is like a play, it all depends on acting; but at a dinner party, acting is hard to hide.” In this fast-paced society, people are always in a hurry, trying to get to know a person in the shortest possible time. And dinner parties, as an important social occasion, can often become a window for us to quickly get to know people.
1. The topics on the table reveal the depth of people’s hearts
Imagine that you are sitting in a busy restaurant, surrounded by lively conversations, and in front of you is a new friend, Mason, whom you are about to get to know better. He is chatting with you while tasting delicious food. The topics range from work trivia to life anecdotes, from social hot spots to personal insights, all of which reveal his character and cultivation.
Mason can always correctly guide the topic, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and pleasant. He never judges others easily, and he will not gossip about others behind their backs. On the contrary, he can always find the beauty in life and infect the people around him with a positive attitude. Such Mason makes you feel that getting along with him is a kind of enjoyment and a kind of spiritual communication.
However, some people are different. They always like to gossip about others at the dinner table and take pleasure in belittling others. Such people often lack self-confidence and need to elevate themselves by belittling others. If you interact with them, you will feel exhausted and may even be hurt.
2. The waiter’s smile reflects the brilliance of humanity
In a restaurant, in addition to communicating with the people at the same table, we also need to interact with the waiters. A person’s attitude can often be seen in his attitude towards the waiters.
Once, you and Harvey went to a restaurant to eat together. Harvey was always polite to the waiters. Whether it was taking orders or serving dishes, he always showed enough respect to the waiters. When he found that the waiters were a little too busy, he would even take the initiative to help carry plates and pass water. Harvey made you feel that he was not only a cultured person but also a person who knew how to respect others.
However, some people are different. They always yell at the waiters, or even deliberately make things difficult for them. Such people are often full of hierarchy and think that waiters are inferior. When you interact with them, you will feel depressed and restrained, and may even be insulted.
3. Calculations at the dinner table reveal the weaknesses of human nature
At a blind date dinner, you met Walter. He looked gentle and well-mannered. However, when ordering, he used the excuse that he was not hungry and asked you to order all the dishes. When the dishes were served, he ate them without hesitation, as if he had forgotten his previous promise.
Walter makes you feel disappointed and angry. You begin to doubt his true intentions and character. Such people are often full of calculations and selfishness. They only consider their interests and never take into account the feelings of others. You will feel exhausted and may even be deceived when you interact with them.
Although a dinner party is small, it can reflect a person’s character and personality. From the topics on the table, the attitude towards the waiter, and whether he is greedy for small profits, we can get a glimpse of a person’s inner world. Therefore, when interacting with people, we might as well pay more attention to these details so that we can better understand each other and choose friends. After all, in this complex and changing world, only by associating with good people can we go further and more steadily.
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