Why don’t men want to touch women over 50? These three men told the truth, and every sentence struck a chord.
Whether it is friendship or love, they will go through stages from enthusiasm to coldness to stability. During the coldness period,
Two people in this relationship will doubt each other, dislike and complain about each other, and feel that the other person is not their lover.
Then the idea of breaking up or getting divorced began to arise. Some couples parted ways because they couldn’t bear the torture of the cold period.
There are also some couples who will never break up no matter how fierce the quarrel is, because they never forget their original intentions.
They have determined that the other person is the person who will accompany them throughout their lives, so quarrels are their way of communicating problems, not the catalyst for divorce.
Of course, there are some couples who, if you say they are not in a good relationship, their external behavior makes people think that they still treat each other with respect;
You say they are a couple of gods, but their behavior will make you feel that their relationship is not that good.
This ambiguity is most likely to be seen in middle-aged couples. After all, when couples reach middle age, their passion has faded.
Only the trivial matters of daily necessities, and the two people can no longer find any sense of happiness and freshness between them when they first got together.
Especially middle-aged men. In real life, more and more middle-aged men don’t want to touch their wives that much.
I no longer hold my wife to sleep at night. What’s the reason? Let’s hear what these three people have to say:
1. William : I came home too late after working overtime. I am afraid that it will affect my wife’s sleep. Our company is currently developing a new project.
I have to work overtime at the company every day. Sometimes when I get home, she is already asleep. Looking at her sleeping soundly,
I couldn’t bear to be disturbed, so I quietly went to wash up. Sometimes I still need to do some work when I get home.
I just slept in the study room, so I haven’t touched my wife for more than a month. I also wanted to find her many times.
Hug her and talk to her about what’s on your mind, but there is really no chance. Sometimes the child will sleep with her.
It’s not very convenient. When I finish my busy work these days, I will love my wife well.
2. Zara, I can’t keep up with my physical strength. I don’t want to bring trouble to myself, so I always say that women are afraid of old age. In fact, men are the same.
I am 47 years old this year. I say that I am still young, but I know in my heart that my physical strength and energy cannot keep up.
So I learned to bow to the years.
On the issue of partner life, I would rather not lose face than lose face in front of my wife.
After all, this matter is a matter of dignity for men, and I don’t want to let half of my wisdom be ruined by this matter.
It is said that women are like wolves at thirty and like tigers at forty. My wife is in the period of strong demand. Now that I see her, I can’t wait to hide away.
So let alone letting me hug her, I’m afraid she’ll get stuck on me, haha, just kidding.
In a few years, when my wife’s demand is not so high, I will take the initiative to find her again!
3. Charlie, our relationship has broken down and getting closer is no longer necessary. My wife and I know very well that our relationship has come to an end.
But for the sake of our children and our parents, we both tacitly chose not to talk about our divorce.
But in fact, the relationship has long been in name only. My feelings are gone, so I don’t want to touch her even more
Every time we sleep, we go back to back, neither getting in the way nor disturbing each other. We each sleep in our own place.
Although it is awkward, it is the best method at present. I want to wait until my children grow up to say they are divorced.
After all, this kind of marriage with different bedfellows is too painful. What other reasons do you think middle-aged men don’t want to touch their wives?
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